Bar mitzvah of Yako Izidor Yakov

Bar mitzvah of Yako Izidor Yakov

This is the photo of my bar mitzvah. The photo was taken on 20th or 22nd April 1933 in Ruse. I was born in 1920 in Ruse. I was the eldest of three children in the family. I didn't have a nanny, because my family was poor. I didn't experience much anti-Semitism in my childhood. My bar mitzvah was an exciting day for me. I was 13 years old. It was quite hard preparing for the speech I had to deliver. At that time there was a literature teacher in Ruse who wrote very nice speeches on demand, and I had to learn the speech she wrote for me by heart; there were a lot of foreign words, which meant I could not understand it and I found it very hard to remember it. Since in the biblical sense bar mitzvah is the first wedding, I received many presents. My father, for example, gave me my first wristwatch. Since my father was a traveling salesman, he could not go to the synagogue on every Sabbath, but he always returned for the Jewish holidays, because his trips in the countryside lasted around a month, a month and a half. There was a mezuzah at home. My father had a tallit and prayer books. I also received a very interesting present from my eldest uncle, Robert Melamed: an ink stand. It was made from some artificial product resembling a horn. It also included a very nice pen and a paper knife. I also remember my uncle's words: 'I am giving this to you, so that you can place it on your desk when you become a director.' And I really did that, when I became chairman of the artistic council of the Puppet Theater in Ruse in 1970.
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