Photo taken in:KarlsbadYear when photo was taken:1903Country name at time of photo:Austria-Hungary, pre 1918Country name today:Czech Republic
This is my maternal grandmother Julia and grandfather Pincus Geftman with their children at a spa in Karlsbad.
The picture was taken in 1903.
From left to right standing: my grandmother Julia Geftman, mother Rosalia Geftman, and an acquaintance of ours, grandfather Pincus Geftman, aunt Sarah's husband, mothers' sister Sarah Abstein are standing.
Mother’s parents lived in Sevastopol. Grandmother Julia Geftman (I do not know her maiden name) was born in the southern Ukraine, in the town of Genichesk [near the Crimea]. My grandmother was very mild. She adored all her children.
I do not know where my grandfather Geftman was born. Sevastopol was totally devastated after the Crimean war. There was a need in qualified people who were willing to work on revival of the city.
My young grandparents came to Sevastopol. Grandfather was clever and entrepreneurial I know that they used to change apartments moving from poorer districts to the wealthier. They financial position improved and their family grew.
Finally they settled in a very beautiful and prestigious district of Sevastopol by historic boulevard. I do not know if my grandfather was educated, but he was very gumptions and go-getting .I do not know what he was dealing with exactly.
All I know he had something to do with construction. He came into money due to his hard work. He was known in Sevastopol for constructing there first steam mill, for the sake of which grandfather became prosperous.
Then he invested money into construction of income-yielding houses. He built a lot in Sevastopol. Even now there is a house in the vicinity of the market, built at cost of my grandfather.
He also built a good big house for his son Grisha after he got married. Grandfather built a country house in Balaklava [coastal town, outside Sevastopol] for his family.
He wanted to restore a prayer house on the cemetery in Sevastopol.
The building remained under constructed. When my husband and I lived in Sevastopol after war, we saw its shambles.
Grandfather started building a shrine for his family , but did not manage to finish it. Grandfather thought that he and his kin would be buried in that shrine. He did not want to leave Russia, but things did not turn the way he expected since revolution as of 1917 was in grandfather's way.
A wealthy and entrepreneurial grandfather could see through that he would not be able to normally live and work during communist regime. That is why he quitted everything and immigrated with his family. All Geftmans left, but my mother.
My relatives did not approve of revolution. They had a skimpy living wandering from one country to another. In the end they all happened to be in France. The entire family got together in Paris. They were not well-off, but could abide by their living. There were a lot of them and they helped each other.
My mother's entire family was rather religious except for my mother. They stuck to all major Jewish traditions, observed Sabbath, went to the synagogue during holidays, they wore mundane clothes.
Grandparents and their children strove to help out surrounding people. They always were charitable. I was told by my mother that every time before the holidays they gave dowry to the brides from poor families.
My grandfather took the most active part in it. Being so go-getting and brisk he raised such a big family. All children finished lyceums and almost all of them got higher education.
Before revolution grandfather had heart problems, and his sugar was high in blood. He was taken to Karlovy Vary and Essentuki in the Caucasus every year. The whole family went there. They had fun, making hoaxes and putting on pageant costumes Grandfather died in 1926 and was buried in the Jewish cemetery in Paris, France.
My mother Rosalia Geftman had 2 sisters and 4 brothers. Her sisters' names are Maria and Sarah, and her brothers' names are Joseph, Alexander, Grigoriy and Konstantin.
Mother's younger sister Sarah was born in 1895. They were very close with my mother. Sarah married a Jew, Upstein and left for Kiev with him. I know he was a wealthy man, and they were happy together. They had a son, Victor.
Mother Rosalia Geftman was born in 1885. She was a gifted musician, and played the grand piano very well. When mother finished lyceum, her parents sent her to Austria to study at conservatoire in Vienna.