Tsivia Vaksman

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  • Photo taken in:
    Kishinev
    Year when photo was taken:
    1931
    Country name at time of photo:
    Romania
    Country name today:
    Moldova

This is my mother Tsivia Vaksman. The picture was taken when she was single, in 1931, in a photo studio in Kishinev. The inscription says ‘As a keepsake to Aunt Rakhil from me.’ My mother didn’t write in Russian correctly, she made syntactic and spelling mistakes. 

My mother was born in Kishinev in 1906. She went to a Russian school for a couple of years, and then she learnt to become a seamstress. Grandfather Elek bought her a ‘Singer’ sewing machine, which my mother took great care of. She lubricated and cleaned it.

My father met his future wife at the birthday party of her friend, it happened in 1928. They liked each other at once and started dating. Then they understood that they would never part. It was the time when my father was drafted into the army. They arranged an engagement to be certain that they would stay together. My father was in the army for three years, and my mother was waiting for him. When Father was on leave in Kishinev, he decided not to go back to the army. My father was so head over heels in love with Mother that he couldn’t part with her. He was found, arrested and returned to his military unit. They made him serve an extra year. Mother had to wait for my father for four years, and she was faithful to him.

My father was supposed to return from the army in January of 1932. My mother was excited to see him. Things were ready for the wedding. But there was a tribulation on the eve of my father’s arrival. Grandfather Elek died and when Father arrived, he saw Mother and Grandmother Charna mourning. The wedding was put off for several weeks, then for some more time, as Grandmother Charna insisted. And when Grandmother broke the subject of shifting the date of the wedding for the third time, Father went to the rabbi for advice, and he said that the wedding couldn’t be postponed for a third time. Thus, my parents went to the synagogue, under a chuppah. When I was a child, I enjoyed looking at a beautiful picture of my mother in her wedding dress and my father in the frock coat. Unfortunately this picture was burned during war times. According to the Jewish rites the wedding was modest, considering Grandmother was mourning.

Interview details

Interviewee: Molka Mirskaya
Interviewer:
Zhanna Litinskaya
Month of interview:
July
Year of interview:
2004
Kishinev, Moldova

KEY PERSON

Tsivia Valksman
Jewish name:
Tsivia
Year of birth:
1906
City of birth:
Kishinev
Country name at time of birth:
Russia
Year of death:
1994
City of death:
Kishinev
Country of death:
Moldova
Died:
after WW II
Occupation
before WW II:
Seamstress
after WW II:
Seamstress
Family names
  • Previous family name: 
    Alterman
    Year of changing: 
    1932
    Reason for changing: 
    Marriage

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