Tag #106852 - Interview #89494 (Emilia Leibel)

My parents met in a romantic way. My mother came from Debica, and my father went to Debica from Cracow because he’d been found a match, some girl called Fryda. But in Debica was my father’s nephew Moniek, who was brought up by his grandparents. He was maybe a 6-year-old child at the time, with his nose into everything and ears like pitchers. And that nephew said to him: ‘Why do you want to go and marry that Fryda! That Fryda’s got a beau!’ He told him which boy she used to go down to the river with. ‘You’d be better marrying Dasia, she’s so pretty.’ My mother was called Dasia Leibel, in her papers she had Ernestyna, but she was Ester, Hadasa, in Hebrew. And Father, when he saw my mother, fell in love with her on the spot, because Mama was a beautiful woman.

It was supposed to be an arranged marriage, but nothing came of it. And how I know about this at all I don’t remember, but my mother never told me. I don’t know when my parents were born, but the age difference between them wasn’t very big, my father was maybe 2 years older.