Suzan with her family

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  • Photo taken in:
    Istanbul
    Country name at time of photo:
    Turkey
    Country name today:
    Turkey

You can see the Cukran family in this photograph.

My husband's mother's maiden name was Ancel.  Lucy Arguete's story is quite interesting.  When my mother-in-law was in her first marriage, it was the time for the flu epidemic.  This epidemic was called the Spanish flu.  This epidemic was in the news in the newspapers too.  Her husband died on the night of the wedding before they could even have any relationship.  Lucy became a widow with her wedding gown, as a virgin maiden.  This flu that was called the Spanish flu, is considered an epidemic historically.  A high fever and sudden death were the typical symptoms of this illness.  Lucy Arguete lived through such a tragedy on the night of her wedding to her husband.

Lucy turned her back to life with this disappointment.  She went to visit her relatives in Ortakoy.  In reality the reason they called her to Ortakoy was to introduce her to my father-in-law Anri Arguete.  At the time, a widow had to be very careful about the steps she took.  Lucy, in reality, was a very optimistic and luminous woman.  She loved giving out presents.  That is why her purse was always full of candy and chocolates.  When children saw her, they always approached her.  This woman who was of short stature, who put her long gray hair up in a bun on her neck, agreed to marry my father-in-law Anri Arguete who was a widower with one child, with the mentality of those days.  Anri Arguete had lost his wife in Ortakoy.  He was a very religious, quiet and inoffensive person.  There was an age difference with Lucy.  Along with the age difference, there was a cultural difference and a difference in life style.  Lucy was a modern person who liked to go out, to spend money, to strengthen her dialogue with people.  My father-in-law Anri on the other hand, was an introverted person who was lost among religious books, who spent his life within religious books.  There were differences from their family structures.  Lucy had an aptitude for western cultures, due to her siblings and her connections outside the country.  Anri on the other hand, was a good person, and that was it.  Lucy never treated Anri's daughter Suzan from his first wife different from her own children.  When Lucy was married, Suzan was 5 years old.  But she became the apple of Lucy's eye.  Suzan knew that Lucy was not her mother.  Besides, the mother's family used to come to see Suzan.  But because Lucy did not distinguish Suzan from her own children, she even showed her preferential treatment at times.  When she went out, she always took Suzan with her.

Suzan was a lively, cheerful girl.  In later years, she turned out to be a very capable woman.  Suzan shared a similar fate with my mother-in-law Lucy.  When Suzan married Albert Chukran, Albert's wife had died in childbirth and left her daughter Beki without a mother.  In those days, Beki was given her dead mother's name.  Suzan took the baby to her heart since she knew the feeling.  She did not even tell the three sisters she gave birth to, Juliet, Sara and Zelda this step-daughter situation for years.  Beki was told the truth by her fiance.  Beki's first reaction was "It does not matter, Suzan is my mother.  Please don't tell it to my sisters".   Every sister was told that they were of different mothers by their fiance, and the sisters never talked about this amongst themselves during their lifetime, in reality.  In Suzan's old age, her sons-in-law competed to take her into their house. 

Interview details

Interviewee: Janet Arguete
Interviewer:
Feride Petilon
Month of interview:
August
Year of interview:
2006
Istanbul, Turkey

KEY PERSON

Suzan Cukran
Decade of birth:
1910
City of birth:
Istanbul
Country name at time of birth:
The Ottoman Empire
Year of death:
1970
City of death:
Istanbul
Country of death:
Turkey
Died:
after WW II
Occupation
before WW II:
Housewife
after WW II:
Housewife
Family names
  • Previous family name: 
    Arguete
    Reason for changing: 
    Marriage
    Decade of changing: 
    1930

Other Person

Juliet Aker
Decade of birth:
1930
City of birth:
Istanbul
Country name at time of birth:
Turkey
Occupation
after WW II:
Housewife
  • Previous family name: 
    Cukran
    Reason for changing: 
    Marriage
    Decade of changing: 
    1950

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