Maria Feheri with her family

Maria Feheri with her family
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  • Photo taken in:
    Budapest
    Year when photo was taken:
    1968
    Country name at time of photo:
    Hungary
    Country name today:
    Hungary
This is a picture of my mother, Erzsebet Antal, nee Rasko (on the left), my two sons, Gyuri and Gabor Antal, and me on the Fishermen's Bastion in Budapest. The photo was taken in 1968. In 1952 I had a premature delivery, Andras: he died quite soon after. Then came Gyuri in 1953, and in 1965 there was Gabor, who later died at the age of 19. He had just started university. He was a Hungarian-English major. It came suddenly, it's called sarcoma. If it caught a young man, it killed him within months. Gyuri graduated from Eotvos Lorand University, majoring in Hungarian and Aesthetics. When it turned out that kidney disease is treated better elsewhere than here, he left. First he went with a scholarship, then in Berlin he made contacts in the Hungarian House [Hungarian cultural institution in Berlin], and he has worked there since. He's a program manager there. The children knew that they were Jews, we didn't hide that, but we didn't raise them to be religious because we already didn't believe, either. When, in 1956 my son asked about little Jesus [traditionally, Christmas presents are said to be brought by little Jesus, rather than Santa Claus], when he was three years old, my husband said to him, 'Gyuri, there is no little Jesus, but you don't have to tell that to others because it hurts people'. It happened once, in a shop, that somebody asked, 'Son, what has little Jesus brought you?' He said to the man that there was no little Jesus and that, '[his] father told me that one doesn't have to talk about this'. So Gyuri knew, and Gabor knew as well. And our close friends knew. Somehow our circle of friends formed in a way that they were all Jews, with one exception.

Interview details

Interviewee: Maria Eva Feheri
Interviewer:
Dora Sardi
Month of interview:
September
Year of interview:
2001
Budapest, Hungary

KEY PERSON

Maria Feheri
Year of birth:
1930
City of birth:
Budapest
Country name at time of birth:
Hungary
Occupation
after WW II:
Teacher/Professor
Family names
  • Previous family name: 
    Antal
    Year of changing: 
    1949
    Reason for changing: 
    Marriage

Other Person

Gabor Feheri
Year of birth:
1965
City of birth:
Budapest
Country name at time of birth:
Hungary
Year of death:
1984
City of death:
Budapest
Country of death:
Hungary
Occupation
after WW II:
University/postgraduate student

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